Ready, Set, Goal!

The good folks at Livestrong.com have a good article [15] about how to set goals for weight loss.  As mentioned in my last post, I feel your goals should be focused on Hellthy habits that are going to that are not only going to help you look better, but feel better as well.  Of course, if you have a lot of weight to lose, long term goals and rewards are just as important as the short-term ones.  Ultimately, it's your journey--figure out what's the best way to motivate you and go for it!

Here are the 6 steps mentioned in the article (the article is a quick read, if you wanna check it out!):

1. Set your long term goals--keeping two very important things in mind so that you are not setting yourself up for failure:
• Your goals should be realistic--obviously you're not going to lose 50 pounds in 2 weeks, regardless of what the latest fad diet claims.  Experts say that 1-2 pounds a week is a realistic and healthy amount to loose weekly.  Use that as your guideline.
• You need to give yourself enough time to achieve them--to go from couch potato to running the NYC marathon in less than a month IS NOT GOING TO HAPPEN!  If you want to run a marathon--great, but plan & set goals that are going to allow you to be successful!
2. Set your short term goals.  These should be easily & quickly obtained (and I don't mean snap your fingers and poof! you're done).  These are the goals you're going to be hitting more often to keep you motivated and striving for your long term goals!
3. WRITE both down on your calendar!  This is a HUGE step!!  And quite honestly something I've never thought about doing.  Sure I'd always have tentative goals (I wanna lost 50 pounds by the end of the year), but seeing it on the calendar (I recommend writing it in a colored SHARPIE!) holds you more accountable and makes it more likely to go the distance!
4. Set your rewards for each of your goals.  Again, NOT food related rewards!  Also, the reward should match the goal.  Longer goals should get bigger rewards--think trips or spa days or new wardrobes!--and shorter goals get smaller rewards--a new book, a mani/pedi, a new album to download on your ipod.  The world (sans food!) is your oyster!
5. Post reminders of what you're trying to achieve--be it a photograph of a younger, healthier you or that weekend vacation spot that you're going to when you've run a marathon.
6. Reward often, but ONLY when you've met a goal.  Make sure that your rewards are always within reach and always building towards your long term goals.  Make sure that you never reward yourself if you haven't met a goal (no sneaking in a quick mani/pedi just because!) and don't hesitate to adjust your goals, if you find that you are never rewarding yourself.  It is possible that you need smaller steps--and honey, there ain't nothing wrong with admitting that!  On the flip side, you do need to earn them, so don't make your goals so easy you're always getting something (sorry, but drinking 64oz of water for one day does not a good goal make!)

Once you start reaching your goals and rewarding yourself, you'll work harder and harder to get to your goals.  It all starts with great planning--and a big SHARPIE!

~a little salt for the rim of your planning margarita--but only one! because you want to remain focused and realistic in your goals!!

Cookies Are For Pupcicles!

As many of you have realized (or not, depending on the craziness of your life), I have not been posting much--okay, ANYTHING in awhile.

 This got me to thinking about motivation. What is it that motivates you? Lately, it seems nothing motivates me. But of course, that's not entirely true. A paycheck and an amazing cup of coffee motivates me to get up, get dressed, and go to work 5--and sometimes 6--days a week. Big brown sad puppy eyes motivates me to take the darling princess out for a walk at least once a day--even if it's just down the block.

 I don't think there's anything wrong with a little motivation for practicing healthy behaviors--in fact, I think anything that will help give you the proverbial kick in the ass is a good thing. Everyone has different motivators. Now's the time to explore what truly motivates you and figure out how you can channel that energy into becoming healthier. There are a lot of things that can serve as motivator, but there is one thing that cannot: food. If you want to splurge and have a piece of cheesecake, go ahead--but it should be a splurge not a reward for good behavior! You are not a dog and don't "deserve" cookies for behaving or performing a trick--so save the cookies for the pupcicles! 

Find a couple of non-food treats to help entice you into regularly performing your hellthy habits. Your rewards shouldn't just be about how much weight you've lost--focus on what will get you healthy--and you can reward yourself with a new SMALLER wardrobe for the weight loss!

For example, I love getting mani/pedi's--so rather than just getting one, I've decided to start earning them. How? NOT by deciding to get one every time I've lost 10 pounds, but by walking Addy! I now have to log at least 15 hours of Addy walking time before I can get a mani/pedi. This way we both get exercise & I get cute toes & fingers to boot!! Movies, clothes, facials, books, traveling...anything that you enjoy doing or buying can easily be converted into a motivating factor.  By the way, myfitnesspal is a great--and FREE!--place online to keep track of your food & exercise (and you can log in with your Facebook or Twitter account).

 The best part? Down the road, you'll realize how good you're starting to feel and you'll want to walk the dog, drink your water, eat your veggies, etc. simply because either you like how it makes you feel when you do it or you don't like how it makes you feel when you don't do it (and I'm not talking about GUILT either!).  Shocking, right?!?!?  But just you wait & see...

Oh, and the next time you want to buy cookies, just make sure they are for pupcicles!

 ~a little salt for your foot scrub while you get your pedicure as a reward for walking the pupcicle!

Me Time!

I can't stress enough the importance of Me Time! I know, I know...we're all busy. We have work, we have school, we have 14 things on our plates and 12 more on the waiting list. But recharging is essential. Find time every day--even if it's 5 minutes--to unplug, disconnect, & recharge you! Linger over a cup of coffee, take a bath, mediate, go to a spinning class, or even lock yourself in the closet. It doesn't matter how or even how much, just make sure it's enough so that you can remind yourself that YOU ARE IMPORTANT! When you remember that you are important, you are more likely to make healthy choices. And while having a great support system makes the entire journey easier, these choices are something that only you can make. So take a few minutes or a day or even a week, but make sure your Me Time is all about Y-O-U! :)

~a little salt for the rim of margarita while I indulge in a bit of "Me Time"!

Roughing It!

To quote Havard University's School of Public Health [14]: it's time to start roughing it!

Here are some recommendations they make for increasing fiber

1. Eat whole fruits instead of drinking fruit juices.
2. Replace white rice, bread, and pasta with brown rice and whole grain products.
3. Choose whole grain cereals for breakfast.
4. Snack on raw vegetables instead of chips, crackers, or chocolate bars.
5. Substitute legumes for meat two to three times per week in chili and soups.
6. Experiment with international dishes (such as Indian or Middle Eastern) that use whole grains and legumes as part of the main meal (as in Indian dahls) or in salads (for example, tabbouleh). 

Okay, so how?  Well, again, the good folks at Harvard (all on the same website link above), nicely provide us a list of foods that you can add to your diet to increase both types of fiber (because they are both equally important!)

Soluble fiber is that which dissolves in water and is responsible for helping lower your cholesterol and regulating your blood sugar.

• Oatmeal, oatbran
• Nuts and seeds
• Legumes
• Beans
• Dried peas
• Lentils
• Apples
• Pears
• Strawberries
• Blueberries

Insoluble fiber is that which does not dissolve in water, and thus, really good at cleaning you out!

• Whole wheat bread
• Barley
• Couscous
• Brown rice
• Bulgur
• Whole grain breakfast cereals
• Wheat bran
• Seeds
• Carrots
• Cucumbers
• Zucchini
• Celery
• Tomatoes

Also, another great source of information on fiber is www.dietaryfiber.com which will provide you will all the information--and much more--you could ever want or need to know about fiber!

And again (yes, you're getting this on ever fiber post!) remember to drink your water and take it slow on increasing your fiber to avoid any unfortunate, um, side effects!

~a grain of salt for your bloody mary (because it has tomatoes and a celery stick, both of which help boost your insoluble fiber!)

An "F" for FABULOUS!

There are 2 types of fiber: soluble and insoluble.  WebMD defines them as:

"Soluble fibers bind with fatty acids and slow digestion so blood sugars are released more slowly into the body. These fibers help lower LDL (bad) cholesterol and help regulate blood sugar levels for people with diabetes. Insoluble fibers help move waste through the intestines and control the pH levels in the intestines. These fibers help prevent constipation and keep you regular." [13]

Basically one lowers your cholesterol and regulates blood sugar and the other makes you poop!  Either way, they are both very important to your overall health.

You'll feel better, you're blood sugars will even out, you'll lower your risk for developing cardiovascular disease, not to mention strokes and diabetes, and of course, you'll poop better and regularly.  All of this will make you a much happier person (just ask anyone who doesn't poop regularly!!) And, of course, one more reminder about increasing your intake slowly!

~a grain of salt for your bloody mary (for extra fiber, of course!)

Beans, Beans The Magical Fruit...

This week's Hellthy Habit is upping your fiber intake.  The recommended daily [12] intake is 38 grams for men and 25 grams for women (which drops to 30 & 21 grams respectively for everyone over 51 years).

JUST A WORD OF WARNING: fiber is not the thing you on which to go overboard!!  You definitely want to work your way up slowly, otherwise, your stomach, intestines, and anyone living, working, or within a 10 feet radius won't be thanking you very much!!!


The first thing you need to do is figure out how much fiber your getting already and then set about to increase it several grams a day until you've reached your goal.  So, how to up your fiber intake?


Fruits
Veggies
Whole Grains
Beans


Of course you can use supplements (think Metamucil or FiberOne), but in the long run getting fiber from food is better, as foods that have the most fiber, like fruits & veggies, have other benefits (vitamins, minerals, antioxidants, etc, etc.).


So what's the point of bulking up your diet?


Not only does the fiber make you more regular (good pooping is important!), but it lowers your risk for heart disease by lowering your cholesterol and regulating your blood sugars (which also reduces your risk of developing diabetes), and it helps you feel fuller longer, which of course helps curb your appetite.  No matter how you look at it, you can't go wrong with more fiber!


~a little salt for your bloody mary & celery, for the fiber of course!


PS--don't forget to drink water, it helps the fiber work better!

Small Changes

The good folks at WebMD [11] put together a collection of ways to "slim down without dieting."  Sounds great to me, since D-I-E-T is a nasty, nasty four letter word in my humble opinion!  They've found easy to tweak things that will help you modify how you eat in manageable, um, bites--thus increasing your odds of success and lowering your odds of failure. 

1. Eating slower & making your meals last longer than 20 minutes (they suggest using a timer!)
2. Sleeping more (although not too much, which we'll learn when we tackle sleeping.  While different studies suggest different amounts--7-9 hours/night seem to be the most ideal)
3. Eat more veggies (hmmm...where have we heard this before?!?!?)
4. Adding soup (broth-based that is) to your meal(s)
5. Eating whole grains (make sure whole is in the ingredients, like whole wheat) and avoid refined grains like the plague (well, they didn't say it, but I'm sure it's what they mean!!)
6. Eyeball your skinny clothes!  By keeping something that's a bit too snug in eye range, you're more likely to stick to your guns!
7. Skip the bacon (i resisted the urge to scream and throw a tantrum like a 5 year old diva told she can't have a new pair of shoes to match her new backpack)...sigh.  okay fine, but I'm still saving it for an occasional treat, thankyouverymuch!
8. Build a better slice of pizza by chosing more veggies and less (or no) meat and going easy on the cheese.
9. Cut back on the sugar--particularly in sugary drinks (switch to water or seltzer and save your calories for delicious indulgences, like CHEESECAKE...hopefully there's not a "never eat cheesecake again" suggestion or I will have to act like the aforementioned 5 year old diva!)
10. Use tall thin glasses rather than short wide ones--you'll trick your brain into serving yourself less (works for using smaller plates, bowls, forks, spoons, etc...as you already know if you've been keeping up!)
11. Limit alcohol intake...a little is good, but too much has too many calories and also loosens your inhibitions making it more likely to select the burger & fries rather than the grilled salmon and salad.
12. Sip green tea, as some studies are showing that it might temporarily boost metabolism (no sweatin' required!).  
13. YOGA! Not just for the exercise component, but also because it forces you to focus and tune-in to your body, which can help you resist overeating and indulging in less-than-healthy foods less frequently.
14. Eat at home, where you can control portions, ingredients, cooking methods, etc.  While some places, such as NYC, are taking initiatives to make the consumer more informed (much to their shock!) by posting caloric content--not everywhere is doing this yet nor is every restaurant, so save your splurges and dine out less frequently.
15. Catch the "eating pause"--that moment when you momentarily drop your fork--it's your body signalling you're done!  so listen up, put your fork down, and box the rest up for leftovers!
16. Chew strong mint (sugarless) gum.  Or brush your teeth.  Anything to make you not want to put anything else in your mouth!
17. Shrink your dishes (apparently I was jumping ahead of myself earlier!  yes, I'm reading and typing at the same time..that way you're experiencing it as I'm experiencing it!) even though you're eating less, you'll be cleaning your plate and so you won't feel like you're missing a thing!
18. Get your portions right (REMEMBER MY CEREAL BOWL?!?!?! that's all I have to say about that!)
19. Try to aim for 80% fullness, rather than 100%, or as the Japanese call it hara hachi bu. Smaller plates, smaller utensils, and stopping at "the pause" all help!
20. Eat out YOUR way!  Going out is fun and inevitable, so make the most out of it.  Order appetizers as meals.  Start with a broth based soup or a house salad (NOT drowning in dressing!).  Split entrees with your friends, BF, spouse or yourself the next day (i.e. have half boxed up immediately rather than waiting until you're done eating).  Ask for steamed veggies or grilled meats.  Most restaurants are happy to comply, if not, find a new favorite restaurant!
21. Reach for the red sauce!  Since they're tomato based, they're chokkers with lycopene and have much less calories than the creme based sauces.
22. Go meatless more often.  While lean meats are a great source of protein, going veg or vegan more often will help you shave calories (presuming of course, you're not replacing lean meat with fettuccine alfredo!)
23. Burn an extra 100 calories a day.  Take a walk, hike, jog, clean the house more vigorously--the little stuff adds up!
24. CELEBRATE!  Be it meeting an exercise goal or even making it through the day without any soda--treat yourself to reward your positive behaviors--trust me, you'll want to be doing more!  Personally, I like using mani/pedi or spa treatments, but whatever floats your boat.

Challenge yourself to start working down this list--it's a sure fire way to get in the express lane on the road to hellthy!  Now, let the tweaking--and losing--begin!


~a grain of salt, taken preferably with a shot of tequila and a wedge of lime (to prevent scurvy, of course!)